How to meet up with a beautiful woman in real life

How many times have you heard your friends brag about being in a relationship with a total hottie or maybe your parents bang on about when you’re going to get a girlfriend? Probably too many times. Yes, it is upsetting to see everyone in the world find their perfect match, yet you’re still stuck watching Netflix without anyone to chill with. Well, take a breath and relax. You’re not going to end up like an incel or a neckbeard who spends their time ranting about their lack of sex or the fact that women don’t pick “nice guys.” Instead, you’re going to use these top tips to help you meet a gorgeous woman and take her out on a date. Let’s get started!

Spruce yourself up!

It can be hard to meet a woman in real life. So before we dive into the sort of things you can do to meet a lovely lady, it’s time to focus on some self-improvement skills first. You can’t just show up at a random club looking like a mess and expect women to fall into your arms. Think of it from an alternative perspective:

“You are getting a drink in a bar. After receiving your glass of wine, someone taps you on the shoulder. You turn around to see a woman staring at you and smiling lewdly at you. Not only is she too close for comfort but she smells a bit funny and looks like she has not bathed in quite a few days (at least that’s what her greasy hair and body odour are saying to you). Whilst you don’t care when women don’t wear makeup, she looks like she doesn’t care at all about her appearance at all. She says she wants to buy you a drink. Although you decline, she insists and you find yourself trapped in small talk with her. It becomes painfully awkward to get yourself away from her.”

Now, if you look at that wonderfully descriptive paragraph, you may start to understand why you’re finding it difficult to meet your dream lady. At the end of the day, it does not matter about how handsome you are or muscled or anything to do with your natural appearance. However, it does matter when someone does not take care of themselves. Not showering, putting effort into your appearance (i.e. not combing your hair or shaving/grooming your beard), wearing un-washed clothes, dealing with body odour and looking messy in general can really sabotage your chances of getting a date.

But that’s not the only thing. The “woman’s” actions clearly were problematic. Coming off too strong and trying to force someone to talk to you can really ruin the mood of anyone’s evening. You don’t want to come off too strong and pressure anyone to talk to you. Keep a small distance of space between you, to make sure that you do not physically intimidate them. You want your conversation to have a natural flow and have your partner actually interested in the things that you want to say.

If your conversation partner does not seem interested then simply wish them well and go and try to find someone else to talk to. It’s not worth it getting angry and wasting your time. Instead, find someone who seems genuinely interested in you. You will have more success there.

Finding women in a club

One of the best places to find women is in a club or a bar. Bare in mind that these sort of encounters may end up leading to a one night stand rather than a healthy relationship, but this doesn’t mean that you should not give it a shot! Remember that bars and clubs tend to be quite loud places so it can be hard to initiate some small talk straight off the bat. You should only do this if you are feeling good about what you have talked about so far. That’s when you can find a quieter area of the club/bar to go and talk. Do not separate her from her friendship group, if she came with one. Instead, suggest to sit somewhere that is in sight of her group but can give her enough space to get to know each other.

You’ve entered the club or bar. It’s time for you to look around to see if there is anyone that you like the look of. Avoid women who are already dancing with partners. They are clearly taken and their partner will certainly not appreciate it. Not every woman is in a bar or a club is there to hook up. So take it on the chin if you get rejected it. There will always be more fish in the sea.

Best way to encourage women to talk to you is to remain positive with your body language. Get yourself immersed in the action of the evening, for instance, if you are in a club then feel free to dance and join in groups of dancers. Keep your dancing style open and welcome. There will be groups of people there who may not appreciate you butting into their dance circle, but there will be others who will be happy to dance with you. Avoid keeping your hands in your pockets and instead busy yourself with a drink. Most importantly, don’t forget to smile! The more welcoming you are, the more likely you will get the opportunity to speak to a lovely lady. From there you can get to know her and, hopefully, get her number.

Dating Applications

Okay, it sounds a little bit boring to mention dating apps. With over 72% of people using Tinder, from a global survey of 4,000 people, it’s clear that they are a great way to meet new people. You don’t even have to just use Tinder. Some meet-up apps, like Bumble, allow women to make the first move. That means that women can look at your profile and make an active decision on whether or not they think that they will click with your personality. Don’t take it personality if some people on these dating apps do not want to talk to you. It can be intimidating talking to so many people, and others may just not work with your type of personality. Instead, say goodbye and keep swiping until you find someone that is interested in you and what you have to say.

Also, one more important fact that you should know about romance apps is that you should never force a r/l (real life) meeting on the person you are speaking to. A lot of apps are used to just hook up, but if you are looking for a more meaningful relationship, take the time to talk to them and get to know the person. Do not force any personal information out of them (such as their phone number or address) and instead just relax and see if you click together. It is not a race to see if you match. Just enjoy the ride and have fun talking to someone new.

Book a date

There is nothing shameful about wanting to meet up with a beautiful woman from a London escort agency. One search of Google and you will find that there are all sorts of sexy ladies that are ready to meet up with you. Booking a gorgeous companion is a simple way to go out on the town with a lovely lady on your arm. The only downside is the fact that you will be spending money to meet up. However, where you go and what you do is entirely at your own discretion.

A sexy escort is there to keep you entertained. Hiring an adult companion is a great way to get to know someone new and also test out how you speak with women. Your companion can tell you what will impress a woman and what will turn her off you. It’s the perfect way to meet up with a sexy woman as well as get some dating experience with her.

Evening Classes

When you think of the best places to meet women, the last place you’d think of is an evening class. But why not? When you go to a club or a bar, you may not ever have any luck. But at a class, it’s the perfect place to socialise and get to know someone new. Not only that but you can develop an interest or hobby into an actual skill. Even if it’s a small hobby, like a knitting or dancing club, this can give you the opportunity to talk to people and make some new friends. You do not have to drink to have a good night. Instead, focus on the things you enjoy and allow the conversation to flow smoothly. Classes are the perfect place to compliment the people you have met. Make sure to use the hobby as a starting point in the conversation. That way you can ease into getting to know them and enjoy the time you spend together.

Dog Walking Events

Man’s best friend may become more of a wingman than you originally thought! If you take your dog out to the park, you will be surprised by how many people will actually come up to talk to you and your dog. Well, they will try to talk to your dog. Use it as a good conversation starter so you can get to know the person once she has finished cooing at your precious pooch. If you feel like you both connect, why not invite her out for a coffee? This will keep your conversation natural and your tone not too pushy.

Are you ready to meet your dream woman?

We all know that it is difficult to meet a woman in this day and age. But that should not stop you from trying. The main thing you should know is that you should not give up. Everyone deserves to be loved. You just need to take your time and find someone who fits you perfectly. So, take a deep breath and get ready to plunge yourself into the world of dating.

Good luck!